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Is This Where Happiness Lives? One Woman’s Quest for Joy

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There’s a joke in Norway that people move here for two reasons: a job or love. I’m in the latter group. I met my Norwegian partner in my international Master’s program in Migration and Intercultural Relations.

I decided to do my master’s in Europe after a post-college graduation gap year in 2016. Part of the choice was driven by affordability. Two years of my Master’s degree in Europe cost less than one year of my Bachelor’s in the U.S.

It turned out that I also enjoyed the idea of living where you can accidentally cross the border to another country without even realizing it!

While love did bring me to Norway originally, living in Oslo for the last two years, I’ve realized how much more there is to draw people here. My days are spent exploring, ice bathing, falling on skis, taking cabin trips and hiking under the "midnight sun." 

An evening kayak ride in the Lofoten archipelago. This photo was taken in June around 10 p.m. We’re above the arctic circle, which means that the sun doesn’t set in the summer months!

Photo: Gabriella Mikiewicz

Norway, with its population of 5.5 million, is a stark contrast to what feels like my previous life in bustling Chicago. The country’s slower pace of life and serene natural environment have brought me a lot of peace and joy.

I’m much happier in Norway. Here are five of the biggest reasons why:

1. The relief of having a stronger safety net

Essentials like healthcare and education are provided for, and this gives me immense peace of mind.

Yes, we do pay for these things with taxes. A freelancer, like myself, pays anywhere between 25% to 37% in income tax. It varies, but typically I bring in about $3,500 to $4,000 per month before taxes.

Still, knowing that I can call for an ambulance if I need one without risking debt or dipping into my savings makes the taxes feel more like an investment into a well-maintained and reliable social infrastructure.

2. Better work-life balance

The rumors are true, Norway is a fantastic place for work-life balance. It also helps when your colleagues are so cute!

Photo: Gabriella Mikiewicz

My partner has 25 days of paid vacation per year, but I’m not really taking a summer holiday in the same way, because of my freelance client work. A lot of internationals tend to go the self-employment route because it can be tough to find work here as a foreigner. 

For me, I think I’m still a bit governed by my American roots when it comes to work-life balance. But it is something I’m learning about, and that I have a newfound appreciation for.

3. The level of public trust

Norway is generally considered a very safe country with a high level of public trust. It’s common to see people leave their belongings, like laptops, unattended at the cafe when they slip to the bathroom. 

Neighbors share and look after common spaces. Communal items like barbecue grills and their equipment rarely go missing. 

Celebrating on May 17th, Norway’s national holiday. The streets are filled with parades and Norwegians in their traditional national costume, the bunad.

Photo: Gabriella Mikiewicz

There are exceptions to every rule, like the time my phone was stolen at a bar in Oslo. But the overall sense of security contributes significantly to my sense of well-being and independence which I will never take for granted.

4. Access to the outdoors

Norway has unparalleled access to nature, and there’s a massive cultural emphasis on spending time outdoors. A popular saying here is "there’s no such thing as bad weather, only bad clothing!" 

From lakes and forests practically in your backyard, to the most remote mountain trails and arctic islands, it’s basically impossible not to find yourself awestruck by some of the most natural landscapes on the planet.

Here I was hiking in Loen, Norway. I had to stop and take a selfie in between panicking about being on a mountain 400 meters above the ground. I’ve pushed myself out of my comfort zone in so many ways since moving here, especially when it comes to outdoor life.

Photo: Gabriella Mikiewicz

There are organizations around the country that provide free rentals of equipment — from skis and ice skates to tents and hiking backpacks — to allow everyone to be able to experience the outdoors.

These practices have pushed me to go out of my comfort zone and helped me grow as a person. For example, ice bathing has been a really cool experience because it’s shown me how tough I am: getting into a freezing fjord requires a lot of mental resilience.

I’ve gotten a deeper understanding of why these traditions are cherished by Norwegians.

5. The chance to appreciate smaller moments

Here I am in Rjukan, Norway. Exploring the country and learning more about it’s culture, history and society has been a great way to feel more at home.

Photo: Gabriella Mikiewicz

It involves creating warm and inviting atmospheres, often accompanied by the enjoyment of simple pleasures like hot beverages and quality time with loved ones. 

In Norway, I’ve developed a penchant for chilly evenings spent knitting, warm under a blanket by the fireside, enjoying life’s simple pleasures — especially when I know that I won’t be disturbed by work emails.

I have a new understanding of what happiness means to me

When people say Norwegians are happy, it doesn’t mean we are all walking around smiling all the time. Happiness in Norway is often less about feeling constant joy and more about taking care of myself and others.

There are many challenges I’ve had to overcome, and I still face new ones. It’s cold and dark half the year, and Seasonal Affective Disorder is a real thing — I start my Vitamin D routine as early as September! 

Ice bathing has turned out to be one of the best things to do in the winter for me. It tests my toughness and resilience, and gets me out of the house during the dark, cold winter.

Photo: Gabriella Mikiewicz

At times, I’ve struggled to make friends as an adult, although I did have a great starting point with my boyfriend’s family and community. It’s been a challenge to navigate new social customs and bureaucracy, and find my footing in a new country.

Ultimately, one of the biggest things I’ve learned from my time in Norway is that when you live in a place where you have your basic needs met and in a society that emphasizes well-being, you can spend time focusing on the things that really make you content.

For me, this has meant exploring new hobbies, spending time in nature, and enjoying a more balanced life.

Gabriella Mikiewicz is an American living in Oslo, Norway. She is a communications freelancer, which has allowed her to work on many exciting projects, including creating and running the popular Instagram account Unlock Norway, and traveling around the country on new adventures for Visit Norway

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Key Takeaways:

  • An American expat shares her experience of living in Norway and reveals five reasons why she’s happier there than in the US.
  • Norway’s social safety net provides essential services like healthcare and education, offering peace of mind and a sense of security.
  • Work-life balance is a cornerstone of Norwegian culture, with extended paid vacations and a clear separation between work and personal life.
  • High levels of public trust create a safe and secure environment where people can feel comfortable leaving belongings unattended and relying on their community.
  • Access to nature is deeply embedded in Norwegian life, with a strong cultural emphasis on outdoor activities and easy access to stunning landscapes.
  • The concept of "kos", similar to hygge, embodies a sense of warmth, relaxation, and contentment through simple pleasures and quality time with loved ones.

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